Maybe you have been guilty of being too critical towards others and we have all experienced the fires of criticism leveled against us. Here are some thoughts concerning being critical and being criticized.
Regarding being critical, may we always remember that what we criticize others for we are often guilty ourselves! (Romans 2:1) may we also remember – “with the same measure you mete withal it shall be measured to you again” (Luke 6:38)… you will be criticized in the same proportion that you criticize. Even if we have a good reason to be critical, there is a desire in our criticism to make our own candle shine brighter by exposing the dimness of others. I wonder how much criticism would escape our lips if we thought of these things.
Regarding being criticized, there is an element of truth in all criticism leveled against us (and sometimes they are even grossly understated.) May God give us grace to receive the criticism and improve our character. Yes criticism hurts, but do not be to hurt. Remember, all that matters is what God sees. In the grand scheme of things, it does not matter all that much what men think of you. Paul said to the Corinthians, “It is a very small thing that I should be judged of you, or of man’s judgment” (I Corinthians 4:3). And do not hold a grudge against the one who has criticized you. “Take heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: For often times also thine own heart knoweth that thyself likewise hast cursed others.” (Ecc. 7:21-22) May we be harder on ourselves than we are on others, and may we profit from the criticism that is made toward us. Criticism can be constructive!
- Todd Nibert (Todd’s Road Grace Church Lexington, KY)
